Husband makes jabs at wife for failing to restock the fridge before he came home from a work trip, she refuses to be reprimanded: 'We are both capable [of] providing food for ourselves when the other is busy'

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    AITA for not stocking the fridge for my husband after his business trip?

    Man staring into an empty fridge in disappointment
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    My husband went out of the country for a business trip and returned home over the weekend.
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    I was out of town visiting friends when he returned. His gripe was that he was left with "no food".
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    For context, I do the majority of the grocery shopping (~90/10) and he does his share of other chores, etc.
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    admit, there was not a refrigerator full of fresh food because I did not go to the store that week. However, I can attest
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    there was a freezer with several meals and a pantry with food that could've been prepared. Perhaps not what he was hoping for, but
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    there were some options. Also, we live in a major city with plenty of grocery stores and restaurants within walking distance. Again, not ideal after a red eye international flight, but options.
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    At first it wasn't a big deal more of a joke, but when he repeatedly made jabs at me about it, I stood up for myself and now it's a full blown argument. We are both stubborn people.
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    Man walking home with a plastic bag
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    I can acknowledge that it would've been nice if I had stocked the fridge upon his return from the trip. However, I
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    work a full time job myself and I see it as we are both capable adults at providing food for ourselves when the other is busy.
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    Woman removing something from a fridge
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    RandomizedNameSystem If only men had access to the family money and allowed to go to grocery stores. I surely hope he did not starve to death.
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    Mpegirl2006 Maybe we could start a GoFundMe to raise awareness of this sad condition?
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    Can you imagine how hungry he was after a business trip without food and then the ENTIRE weekend?
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    Laylaselena NTA. He's a grown man who can grab takeout or cook from the freezer/pantry. It would've been nice to have fresh groceries, sure, but you're not his mom. If it was
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    really important to him, he could've asked beforehand or picked some up himself. His repeated jabs make it more about entitlement than actual hunger
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    4consumer He could have had it delivered, but wanted Mom to wait on him.
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    Man delivering groceries to a woman
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    SpiceAndBlush And she also made the effort to stock up the freezer and the pantry! He should have been grateful for that, not like she's going to be gone for a long period of time
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    Machine-Dove If it was something he wanted, it takes mere minutes to type up "hey honey, if you have time can you pick up X, Y, and Z at the store for me before you leave on your trip?"
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    Words. We can use them to communicate our wants and needs. Remarkable.
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    remadeforme He could have made a grocery pick up order at the airport and just grabbed it on the way home. Like... idk why he's acting like its hard
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    LdiJ46 What got me was the "restaurants and grocery stores within walking distance". He literally didn't even have to get
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    the car out to get something to eat, besides the fact that there was food in the freezer and pantry. His reaction is just over the top.
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    Noodle_Bee_Bah Yes! It's not like he came home to an empty house with zero food or options. Acting like he's helpless when stores and restaurants are right there just makes him look dramatic
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    Chance-Cod-2894 Op-NTA. He is a grown man. Why didn't he have it stocked for YOU when you got home?
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    yurilovesrice NTA. Did he never go on business trips when he was single? Does he not know how to function as an independent adult?
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    yurilovesrice NTA. Did he never go on business trips when he was single? Does he not know how to function as an independent adult?

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